Things to avoid in life to find your inner peace

 

We all know “few things to be avoided to get peace in life''. However, we keep it between us.

Please pay attention to these points which are very common in everyone's life, however, ignore it.

Each point interconnected to each other

Ego: Seems like the very short and small word but it divides the relationships amongst friends, families. One should remove this word from their vocabulary. It creates distance from everybody and makes you a lonely person. If you still have this word in you, think about it why you have still kept it. Ask yourself a question is it going to benefits you anyway? I believe an answer would be a big "No". Ego shouldn't have any existence in our life its destroyed love life or husband-wife relationship. Since we notice in ourselves somewhere, we too have little ego exist in us. We should ask ourselves where am I doing wrong. What I have to do to remove it. The best and simple example to remove ego from your life is just to forgive that person and take initiative to talk to him. The ego must be in your workplace or in your relationship, try not to take egotism to take over you, otherwise, you might lose that person and might be you need the same person in your life again and you won't see him around. 

Just Remove ''E" from Ego and say Lets ''Go".

 

Anger: It’s an emotion we show to our loved ones and sometimes to strangers. If we control our anger which is quite impossible sometimes, we could see enormous changes in our life. Mostly people lost control over anger and they lose the relationship and broke up with loved ones. We have many examples in front of our society especially domestic violence is a common issue between husband and wife. If you get angry better keep quiet and leave the place it could save many things, or else it destroys your relationship. Anger comes only when things don't go as per our wishes and lose control that affects the relationship. Sometimes long-term relationships broke up with small issues. There is a scientific theory or research that shows aggression has its own side effects like headaches, digestion problems, depression, high blood pressure, skin issues & heart attack. It might affect your brain and you might go into a coma.  Aggression is necessary for some places where it actually needed like a protest against human rights, against govt. and things that are harmful to you and your family, where you are justifying the good side of you. 

Control your anger before it starts controlling you.

 

Revenge: Action of hurting or harming someone in return. It causes major destruction by someone who has gone through the same situation on them if you ask murders, terrorists, or thieves they have the same answer. They take avenge since they are being harmed by others. It gives them temporary good feelings which don't last long. It's not good to take revenge as it has the worst effect on you. If you being hurt by someone better you forgive them and control your anger which gives peace and you will have sure good feelings which last long. Sometimes Ego comes in between and distracts you and eventually you do such thing which you are not intended to do. Nowadays you see in the news channels about the Indo-Pak war of words, US-China trade war, these are the examples of taking revenge and recently the case with US-Iran war which scares all of us. If these countries start taking revenge with each other’s than 3^rd world war will be drawing near. We should all take an oath not to take revenge instead accepts forgiveness formula. We stay not more them 70-80 years and what message you want to leave behind. Be a good moral to society and your friends and family.

    

Revenge is not the solution 

Greediness: Greed will never fulfil your happiness and if you behind money and materialistic life, it means you have taken a wrong turn. Consult someone for advice rather it will be severe consequences of your habits. Don't run behind money it's not fixed with someone it floats like a river and it goes from each hand. It will come back to you don't chase for it rather work for it. If you find that your life has become too much busy and you have to work continuously then take a break, go for adventure or some isolated place where you find peace.

A greedy person never stays happy and he always thinks about how to make more money in this way he stops being honest and starts making fraud and deceive others. Sometimes he lost all that he earns. For instance, gambling makes people rich sometimes but most of the time you lose everything so better say No to gambling. Be happy what you have that gives you happiness, think of those people who are not as lucky as you.

Happiness does not get from money but from fate, often the least people taught us expensive lessons in life. All are good people but we come to know at our bad moments. Even if you become angels, still people are out there to talk bad about you